post breakup friend disorder.... or not...

So, how long does it take for two people to become friends after they break up after a relationship? some may say that they could never be friends with someone after a break up, while others say that that they just don't want to be Friends anymore. Personally i have to admit that having been dumped about 8 months ago, following a year long relationship, it took longer than i expected to be normal friends.
And i don't mean the times that you tell your self that "i am her friend only" as an excuse just to get closer to her, knowing all the while that you have unresolved feelings that certainly needed to be sorted out. but really how long does it take? one interesting theory that someone came up with is that it take half the time that you went out with someone, to get over them....
for me, following months of denial and playing mind games with my self, it suddenly dawned on me, "wake the fuck up, she doesn't love you and she's not fucking coming back, DEAL WITH IT" and deal with it i did... i must say just admitting it and actually making an active effort to move on, really does help.... besides we are pretty good friends now, despite all the ugly things that happened....

I have a car

Kim is my friend.
I am Kim's friend.
I have a mo-ped.
Kim has a mo-ped.
Kim has a car.
I have a car.

Ps: Kim also has syphilis.....

God who????

Oh man what a day it has been..... i spend 10,000 bucks getting the bike back into a respectable condition and then it rains on it.... Sigh.. sigh.. SIGH...... isnt there any fairness in life i ask.... maybe its cos God knows i dont believe in him..... maybe.....

PS: To all you gluttons out there, being extra nice to someone, will make them feel obligated to buying you lunch....... from an expensive place.....

of voyeurs and Ache

Well just as i thought, no one has read my Blog.... well cant blame anyone i guess... how are they gonna read something whe they dont even know its there... althought i must admit having to post ones comments on the immense stage of the world wide web is somewhat fulfilling, i dont kno why though.... a close friend of mine said that blogs are a modern day voyeurs tool.... does that make me an exhibitionist?

oh and if you get the chance, listen to "Ache" by James Carrington, Sad little song.

Is there anyone out there???

So here i am.... a blogger.. although i am quite unsure about the concept of blogging, one question keeps nagging me.... if a considerable proportion of the world population have their own blogspots, who the hell would wanna read mine???